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Worship Gone Wrong

Nadab, Abihu, and the strange fire — and the Lord's Prayer as a calibration tool.

May 25, 2025 Leviticus 10 Pastor Tyler Allred 14 min
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Worship Gone Wrong

Nadab, Abihu, and the strange fire — and the Lord's Prayer as a calibration tool.

A few months back I was in a worship setting where the worship pastor stepped up to define worship for a roomful of new faces and said this: these next 20 or 30 minutes are all about you. Bring your emotions, bring your burdens — God just wants to surround you with His love. This is your time.

I wanted to sink into the floor. Because what he was describing isn't worship. It's the polite, well-meaning, almost exact opposite. And before I could pile on him, Leviticus 10 stopped me. Because if I'm honest, I've been on the same end of that mistake plenty of times myself.

Leviticus 10 opens with two of Aaron's sons — Nadab and Abihu, brand new priests — walking into the tabernacle and offering up something God hadn't asked for. The text calls it strange fire. The Hebrew word is zara, the same adjective God uses elsewhere for foreign gods. So picture it: Nadab and Abihu are worshiping Yahweh, but doing it in a way that looks too much like the pagan neighbors down the street. If a stranger had wandered in off the road, they'd have walked away picturing the wrong God entirely.

That's the question Leviticus 10 puts on us: if somebody new walked into our worship and all they had to go on was our liturgy and our words — what kind of God would they be picturing?

Three things show up in the text about what Nadab and Abihu got wrong. First, the strangeness. Pagan-shaped worship of the right God still gives people the wrong picture. Second, "the Lord did not command them." The whole thrust of Leviticus has been God moving first — God initiating, God prescribing how we draw near. Nadab and Abihu cooked up something fresher. Maybe (I'll be honest) some ego too: Moses and Aaron got a lot of attention in chapter nine, and these two younger guys decided it was their turn to be seen. Worship had quietly become about them.

Third — and this is the verse doing the most work in the whole chapter. Verse 3: "Among those who are near me, I will be sanctified, and before all the people I will be glorified." Sanctified there is the same word Jesus uses in the prayer He taught us — hallowed be thy name. We're not making God holy; He's already holy. We're praying His name would be revered as the holy thing it already is. So verse 3 really reads: when you draw near to me, I will be hallowed.

Drawing near to God is all about grace. There's no entrance exam. No life you have to perfect first. But it's also not casual. We don't treat the holy God flippantly. Nadab and Abihu treated the holy God flippantly. The consequences were severe.

I've been sitting with this all week, asking the hard question: how often do we bring strange fire and call it worship?

A pastor went viral on TikTok recently, bragging that in her church they never even use the word sin. We just want you to feel loved. That's strange fire. The God of Scripture wants to convict us — to call out patterns and make us more like Him. Strip that out and you're pointing people somewhere else.

The other side of the room is just as off — settings where grace went missing entirely, replaced with shame and works and a never-good-enough scoreboard. That's strange fire too, pointing to a different God altogether.

"Strange fire isn't about the wrong incense. It's about worship that points people away from the God who's actually in the room."

And then there was that worship pastor I started with — this is all about you. The word worship literally means giving worth: putting our worth in God. Worship is about God and God alone. Full stop. The healing and intimacy and being-surrounded-by-love are real byproducts of true worship — but they aren't the reason. God is the reason.

I'll confess: I've walked out of a worship service before and the first words out of my mouth were, that worship just didn't do much for me. Which is another way of saying I had quietly made the whole thing about me. Strange fire shows up in our hearts before it ever shows up in our microphones.

So here's the gift I think Jesus already left us as a calibration tool. The Lord's Prayer is linguistically tied to Leviticus 10:3 — same word, hallowed. And it functions like a lens you can lay over your worship and your week.

This week, my invitation: pray it every day, slowly. Let each line interrogate your day. Is His name being revered in how I live? Am I asking for His kingdom or mine? Am I trusting Him for daily bread, or running around frantic? Am I letting His grace convict me, and am I extending it to others? Am I trusting Him to lead me and deliver me?

That's the lens. Lay it over your worship and your Tuesday. See what shifts.

I don't want to be Nadab and Abihu. I don't want to bring strange fire to His altar. I want my eyes — and our worship — fixed firmly on Him.

Personal reflection on Leviticus 10 — for your time with the Lord this week. Pray the Lord's Prayer slowly, every day, with a journal nearby.
1
WHAT GOD WERE THEY PICTURING?
Imagine a stranger walked into your normal week — your prayer life, your Bible reading, your conversations about God — and all they had to go on was what you said and how you said it. What kind of God would they walk away picturing? Is it the God of Scripture, or some other deity entirely? Be honest on paper.
2
"THAT WORSHIP DIDN'T DO MUCH FOR ME"
Tyler confessed walking out of a service and saying exactly that — and realizing he'd quietly made the whole thing about himself. When was the last time you measured a worship gathering by what you got out of it? What would change if you measured it by whether God was hallowed?
3
AT WHOSE COMMAND?
"The Lord did not command them." Nadab and Abihu cooked up something fresher than what God had asked for. Where in your spiritual life have you been improvising — a practice, a posture, a prayer pattern — that's more about your preference than His invitation? What would it look like to come back to what He's actually asked for?
4
CHEAP GRACE / HEAVY SHAME
Tyler named two extremes: a gospel so heavy on grace that the word "sin" disappears, and a gospel so heavy on works that grace disappears. Which one tempts you? Which one have you been formed by — in your background, your reading, your default mode? What would it look like to come back to the middle?
5
HALLOWED BE THY NAME
Read Matthew 6:9–13 slowly, out loud. Stop after each line and ask, is my life actually aligned with this? Where did the Spirit catch you? Where did you breeze past a phrase you've prayed a hundred times? Write down what surfaced.
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WORSHIP MEANS GIVING WORTH
The word worship literally means giving worth — putting your worth in God. Sit with that for a minute. What in your week is competing for that worth right now? Approval? Productivity? A relationship? A fear? Name it on paper, and tell God you're putting your worth back in Him.
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THIS WEEK'S INVITATION
Pray the Lord's Prayer every day this week. Not on autopilot — slow it down line by line, and let each line interrogate your day. Keep a journal. At the end of the week, look back: which line did the Spirit keep returning you to? What is He inviting you to change?
For Sunday night small groups and weekday studies — questions to take this further together. Plan for ~45 minutes of discussion.
1
OPEN
Tell the group about a worship moment that has stuck with you — a song, a service, a setting where God felt unmistakably near. What made it that? What did it form in you?
2
READ TOGETHER
Read Leviticus 10:1–3 aloud, then Matthew 6:9–13. What jumps out about the connection between God being "hallowed" in Leviticus and "hallowed be thy name" in the Lord's Prayer? What is God after in both?
3
WHAT IS STRANGE FIRE?
Tyler said the Hebrew word zara is the adjective God uses elsewhere for foreign gods. Nadab and Abihu were worshiping Yahweh in a way that looked too much like the pagan neighbors down the street. Where do you see strange fire in modern Christianity? Where do you see a hint of it in our own church or in your own worship habits?
4
THREE THINGS THEY GOT WRONG
Walk through the three together: (1) the worship looked pagan-shaped, (2) "the Lord did not command them," (3) they treated God flippantly instead of hallowing Him. Which of the three feels most relevant to the church today? Which one is sneakiest in your own life?
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EITHER EXTREME
Tyler named two ditches — the TikTok pastor who never says the word "sin," and the legalistic setting where grace goes missing entirely. Which extreme is your background more prone to? Which extreme is our culture more prone to right now? How does either one give people a wrong picture of God?
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"WORSHIP IS ALL ABOUT YOU"
Tyler told the story of a worship pastor telling new people that "the next 20 minutes are all about you." How easily does that drift sneak into our own worship? When have you caught yourself measuring a service by what you got out of it? What would it look like to recalibrate around hallowing God's name instead?
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THE LORD'S PRAYER AS CALIBRATION
Pray the Lord's Prayer slowly together — line by line, with a few seconds of silence after each. Then go around: which line landed hardest? Which one feels furthest from how you're actually living right now?
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TAKE IT OUT THE DOOR
One commitment for the week: pray the Lord's Prayer slowly, every day, and journal what comes up. Pick one line each person wants the Spirit to work on. Plan to come back next week and report — what shifted in your worship and your week?
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